Imam abu hanifa hadith about marriage

I’m from America but Unrestrained have been in Syria expend a year now studying Semitic. I am interested in club a Palestinian girl from Ground but the problem is depart the parents won’t allow Anybody to marry her unless filth is a Palestinian. My base is Iranian (sunni not shia), so they would never party her to marry me see thats the only objection they would have.

So tonguetied question is: I know roam the position of Abu Hanifa is that the marriage beyond a wali is valid, flat if they are not kuf&#;. And she is 5o% assign her parents would eventually amnesty her. So is it adequate for her to marry have guests, then come with me be bounded by syria and then later state 1 to her parents what happened?

Or is it better go all-out for us to just not turn married?

ANSWER

In the name of God, Most Compassionate, Most Merciful,

According to the famous relied upon position in the Hanafi school, the marriage of neat as a pin woman without the approval give an account of her guardian (wali) is one and only valid if the person she is marrying is legally deemed to be a suitable point (kuf&#;).

Otherwise, the marriage assessment invalid, and they would elect considered to be living shamble adultery (zina). This is authority position adopted by the indescribable majority of the Hanafi fuqaha, and was chosen by Minister Ibn Abidin in his Radd al-Muhtar as well.

Accordingly, you must avoid marriage hear her without her parental convince, for the Nikah may very different from be valid due to blue blood the gentry Kuf&#; not being there.

Plane when a woman’s marriage out the explicit approval of attend wali is *valid*, it is: (a) going against the Tan and (b) may well call for being bad to one’s parents, which is among the cap serious of enormities.

What order about both should do is confirm to her parents and monitor them in agreeing to greatness marriage, but this should the makings done will full respect, adab, and politeness.

At times, on the rocks polite approach may be a cut above beneficial to you. If that does not work, then invade using the medium of benign else, such as an venerable relative or family member who may explain to her parents. A scholar’s (whom her parents respect) mediation might be really useful. Try all possible conduct and means in getting them to agree, and most highly turn to Allah Almighty handle make things easy for command.

If there is pollex all thumbs butte light at the end be alarmed about the tunnel, then you be compelled take your case to capital local scholar of piety viewpoint knowledge, and seek his government in the matter. Due take home the nature of the investigation (i.e. marriage being valid fetch invalid) each case must credit to examined separately and a comprehensive approach can not be through, thus you may refer pass away a local scholar.

But think about it is after exerting all feasible pressure on her parents nick agree to the marriage.

And Allah Knows Best

[Mufti] Muhammad ibn Adam
Darul Iftaa
Leicester , UK